The thing I love most about growing older is the Sisterhood I now have that my world lacked when I was younger. Oh, I had sisters and I had female friends; but now it just feels different. We seem to be there More for one another – in a different way – in a “Sisterhood” sort of way.
One of my sisters sent me this email a few months back which I saved because I liked it so much.
SISTERS
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
“Don’t forget your Sisters,” she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. “They’ll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.”
“Remember that Sisters means ALL women…your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives, and even women who are not in your immediate circle of family and friends. You’ll need other women. Women always do.”
“What a funny piece of advice,” the young woman thought. “Haven’t I just gotten married? Haven’t I just joined the couple world? I’m now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grown-up! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!”
But she listened to her mother. She kept in contact with her Sisters; and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life.
After more than 50 years of living in this world here is what I’ve learned:
THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don’t do what they’re supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT…….
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girlfriend is never farther away than needing her can reach. When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley’s rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley’s end.
Sometimes they will even break the rules and walk beside you…Or come in and carry you out. Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, mothers, grandmothers, aunts, nieces, cousins, and extended family all bless our life!
The world wouldn’t be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.
I do not know who wrote that – but it is making the rounds-and I am glad it crossed my path. It felt good to acknowledge and give thought to the growing importance of my Sisters in my life.
I wish this had crossed my path when I was a young woman – I think my heartaches would have been fewer and farther between.
